I need a sperm donor

I HAVE been married now for about 4 years and without any issue. All the medical tests I went for confirmed that everything is okay with me. On the other hand, my husband has refused to go for any test saying that he is okay. However, I noticed that each time we have sex, he hardly produces any sperm. This has made me to confirm that he is impotent. Since he has refused to seek medical help, I have decided to help him by seeking for an anonymous  sperm donor to fertilise me so we can have our own child. I will appreciate it if you can assist me this.

— Bisi (by SMS)

Answer: Although using an anonymous sperm donor for conception is a popular and well accepted procedure, it has to be by agreement by the concerned couple. For this reason, it will be advisable for you to obtain your husband’s consent before going ahead with the idea. Doing it without your husband’s consent may lead to a lot of complications which may tear the marriage apart.

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Question: My sensitive teeth

I always experience pain and discomfort in my teeth each time I take sweets, cold or hot drinks and ice cream. The pain even comes on when I am brushing my teeth. I was informed that I have sensitive teeth. Kindly let me know what to do about this.

—- Jubril (by SMS)

Answer: Tooth sensitivity is a common problem that affects millions of people. The good news is that sensitive teeth can be treated. Sensitive teeth can also be a sign of a cracked tooth or a ​tooth abscess, which needs to be treated by your dentist to prevent losing a tooth or getting an infection in your jaw bone. If you suddenly develop tooth sensitivity, make an appointment with your dentist to see if there is a source that needs to be treated.

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Question:  My red eyes

I recently noticed that my two eyes suddenly became red. Kindly let me know what could cause this. I am a 20 year old University Undergraduate who is not into drinking or smoking.  

— Goriola (by SMS)

Answer: Sudden development of red eyes happens to a lot of people every now and then. Your eyes get red when the tiny blood vessels on the surface of the eyes expand and turn the whites of one or both eyes a pink or reddish tint. Many things can cause it, like untreated high blood pressure, a night of heavy drinking, or a physical injury to your eye. But if you haven’t had too much alcohol, or scratched or poked your eyeball recently, there are other possibilities. Allergy triggers may make your eyes red. Outdoor causes include pollen from grasses and trees. Indoor triggers include pet dander, dust or mold, or irritants like perfume and smoke. In these cases, you need to see a eye doctor for proper check-up.

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Question:  My father’s swollen feet

My 65-year old father’s feet have been swollen for the past two weeks without any pain.  Since he did not injure the feet in any way, we are not suspecting any fracture in the legs. Kindly let me know what could be the cause of his condition and the solution.

— Cletus (by SMS)

Answer: A common cause of swollen feet is Congestive heart failure (CHF). CHF develops when the heart ventricles can’t pump enough blood volume to the body. Eventually, blood and other fluids can back up inside the lungs, abdomen, liver and lower body. Kidney failure is another possible cause of swollen feet. A sudden loss of blood flow to the kidneys can prompt kidney failure.  This may lead to a loss of the kidneys ability to filter waste from the blood sufficiently. The body becomes overloaded with toxins if the kidneys can’t do their regular job. CHF and Kidney failure can be life-threatening if left untreated. Your father certainly needs an urgent medical attention.

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Question: I am always hungry

I am a 55-year old female civil servant mother of four already in my menopause. Although I believe that I am in good health, I recently noticed that I am always hungry. Funny enough with all the food I eat, I am still lean. Kindly let me know what is going on

— Mrs K T (by email)

Answer: Hunger is your body’s natural cue that it needs more food.  If you feel hungry often, it may be beneficial to assess your diet and lifestyle to determine if there are changes you can make that will help you feel more full. Other causes include; a diet that lacks protein, fat or fiber, as well as excessive stress or dehydration. To keep your hunger levels under control, it is generally recommended to get at least eight hours of uninterrupted sleep each night. You may feel hungry often if you don’t eat enough fat. You may also be hungry if you’re not drinking enough water. That’s because it has appetite-reducing properties. If your diet lacks fiber, you may find that you are always hungry. This is because fiber plays a role in reducing your appetite and keeping you full. Frequent hunger may also be a symptom of disease. First, frequent hunger is a classic sign of diabetes. Hyperthyroidism, a condition characterized by an overactive thyroid, is also associated with increased hunger. Additionally, excessive hunger is often a symptom of a few other conditions, such as depression, anxiety and premenstrual syndrome. If you suspect that you may have one of these conditions, it is important that you talk with your doctor for a proper diagnosis and to discuss treatment options.